Judging Tina

Its a natural instinct all of us have we judge people within the first couple of seconds of meeting them. We have no idea what their story is or where they have been or came from. I remember when i meet this girl name "Tina" (name change to protect her identity) I thought she was very promiscious and just longed for attention and I judged her constantly. I had absolutely no idea who this girl was and yet i judged her constantly and spoke negative of her. Litte did I know little Tina was not promiscious because it was her choice in fact she went through alot her mom got remarried and her stepbrother molested her and after many years of this continous sexual abuse Tina's cousin found out and started doing it as well....When Tina told me this I was so shocked and nearly in tears....could you imagine your brother and your cousin....Family continuously abusing you sexually but your so young (6 years old) and you think its "okay" . Till this day Tina still hasn't conquered her haunting past and she is constantly searching in the wrong places for love and acceptance although i don't agreee with her lifestyle she is constantly on my heart and in my prayers . She has sex with many guys searching something that she will not find in those men she was looking for love , comfort , exceptance and more but that is something not even an 18 year old boy could give her despite her misconceptiom . Tina's mom did find out when a neighbor told her of these things going on under roof she was distraught and cried unconrollobly. Can you imagine your daughter is getting molested by your step son and you have absolutely no idea and your living with it every day of your life and its constantly on your mind and haunting you every second. !!When finding out this information about a girl who i constantly labeled a "HOE" I realize that you really have no idea what a person goes through so you shouldnt be so quick to judge ....everything is not what it seeems....so do not judge so easily but learn a persons story it might have an everlasting effect on your life like Tina's story did on mines .

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-Tianna Etes (In My Skin )