Learn about me and youll be perfect

So lately I have been doing some soul searching and thinking about life ...and turning 16 ! So sixteen is the "OFFICIAL" age I can date and I have been observing the sudden formations and collapsing of relationships all around me...at one point part of me never ever wanted to be in a relationship at all....I pretty much shoved all guys in one category.. I labeled them as trifling inconsiderate and unfaithful....although most of them are I realize not all of them fall into that category....and often i tried to make a list of requirements impossible to achieve....... but lately my mind has been maturing and i realized the thing I want in a relationship most is COMMUNICATION I mean  i know that seems crazy that  that's it but I realize what makes me attracted to a guy is him wanting to know everything about me and caring to know my views on certain subjects and him wanting to know everything  on my mind....I want some one who is also honest.....I mean you know how ray j says keep it 100 all i want is someone to keep it 90 with me..to me honesty and communication is enough to keep the flame in a relationship ignited..  many guys think I'm different ..crazy....some alien from out of space..but I'm just a simple girl who at the end of the day doesn't want to be hurt the same way most girls... are I don't want me and my boyfriend to be  put  in the pile of failed relationships because of the common monsters that tear at our foundation of a strong relationships I refuse to have a relationship built on lies and lack of communication....I am one of the girls who actually want a successful relationships... I know I will face heartbreak that is just something that life gives to u...but I just don't want to be so hurt by a relationship... that I find it almost impossible to love again.... and become bitter... that just not who I want to be all I require is "that guy" get to learn about me and he will be Parfait <- Perfect In french !!!!

Tia aka In My skin :-) <3 <3 Peace & Love

Things Daddy Never Told His Little Girl

SO its early and this topic has been on my find for to many week so imma just let it flow. So basically I realized over the past few Weeks by watching many people around me situations that they are constantly in unsuccessful relationships because nobody ever really told them what to look for in a boy or girl or what type of person to be to have a productive relationships. Girls for example need a father figure to show them the pathway of what is a "good guy"...There are some things father never REALLY tell girls about guys....they never tell you that if you meet a guy and you have barely any clothes on he is just gonna want sex. Daddy never told his little girl that she will get her heart broken many times but she should remain strong. Daddy never told his little girls...that being easy and promiscuous is not appealing and will not get you true love. Daddy never told you guys will use you. Daddy never told you that when your sexting and thinking  hes the only one seeing the picture hes actually gonna show 5 more of his friends. Daddy never told his little girl that that if the words hoe/bitch is a constant word in a guys vocabulary 9 times out of 10 he doesn't have any respect for women. Daddy never told you the statistics of continuous rising diseases within teenage boys . Daddy never told his Little girl the key to finding a good boyfriend or girlfriend is being your self..... he never told you that if a boy really is worth it he would respect if your celibate. Ladies this is the run down of some of the few things some fathers never told their daughters.... and this is why we have so many broken hearted girls rushing in to relationships....however until they know their facts they will remain ignorant to all the tricks of the male mind.....talk to your fathers,,,,, they were a guy once and they know the tricks and everything...and they would be heartbroken if they knew their little girls were falling into the same traps they use to set.

_ Peace , Love , Happiness -In My Skin BKA Tianna Etes