So lately I have been doing some soul searching and thinking about life ...and turning 16 ! So sixteen is the "OFFICIAL" age I can date and I have been observing the sudden formations and collapsing of relationships all around me...at one point part of me never ever wanted to be in a relationship at all....I pretty much shoved all guys in one category.. I labeled them as trifling inconsiderate and unfaithful....although most of them are I realize not all of them fall into that category....and often i tried to make a list of requirements impossible to achieve....... but lately my mind has been maturing and i realized the thing I want in a relationship most is COMMUNICATION I mean i know that seems crazy that that's it but I realize what makes me attracted to a guy is him wanting to know everything about me and caring to know my views on certain subjects and him wanting to know everything on my mind....I want some one who is also honest.....I mean you know how ray j says keep it 100 all i want is someone to keep it 90 with me..to me honesty and communication is enough to keep the flame in a relationship ignited.. many guys think I'm different ..crazy....some alien from out of space..but I'm just a simple girl who at the end of the day doesn't want to be hurt the same way most girls... are I don't want me and my boyfriend to be put in the pile of failed relationships because of the common monsters that tear at our foundation of a strong relationships I refuse to have a relationship built on lies and lack of communication....I am one of the girls who actually want a successful relationships... I know I will face heartbreak that is just something that life gives to u...but I just don't want to be so hurt by a relationship... that I find it almost impossible to love again.... and become bitter... that just not who I want to be all I require is "that guy" get to learn about me and he will be Parfait <- Perfect In french !!!!
Tia aka In My skin :-) <3 <3 Peace & Love
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